Tomato Confit

Here’s something I never thought I’d say (and certainly never thought would be true, on various levels): I’ve had tomatoes last longer than a three-ish month relationship. You read me right. I didn’t connect these dots until prepping this post. But you gotta admit, it’s a good hook and endorsement for confit as a method … More Tomato Confit

Roasted Delicata Squash

This is the longest I’ve gone without posting in the seven years I’ve had this blog. There are many reasons why. Some of them I’d rather not discuss. Here’s what I am willing to share. This latest move overall has been good for me; however, it forces me to compare myself to others and to … More Roasted Delicata Squash

Dragonfruit Martini

I just have to keep telling myself, “My mother was trying to be nice.” Like most people (especially, I think, females) I’m highly self-conscious about how I look. It’s part of why I hate being photographed. The last few years I’ve definitely let myself go, using a variety of personal reasons as excuses. But my … More Dragonfruit Martini

Beet and apple salad

In addition to HGTV, a daily must-watch in my parents’ house–God, help us all–is Good Morning America. I cannot believe my mother–the woman who forbade me from watching The Simpsons as a child because the main character was an idiot and she didn’t want me sympathizing or empathizing with the (willfully) ignorant (…not even joking…and … More Beet and apple salad

Date Quinoa Salad

This was one of my first times working with dates, let alone in a salad. (Oh, and the theme of this post is going to be a pun on “first time with a date”). One of many problems I have as a serial monogamist is that I love first dates. Go figure. Someone who loves … More Date Quinoa Salad

Quinoa, Lima Bean Salad

It’s not easy being green. I’ve mentioned this before, but Ottolenghi is a genius when it comes not only to vegetables, but also to flavor profiles. His spice combinations are amazing. Anyway, one day I decided to make this: It’s a salad of quinoa, fava beans, avocado, lemon wedges, and something called a “breakfast radish” … More Quinoa, Lima Bean Salad

Eggplant Curry

There’s a fine line between “doing something outside your norm” and “losin’ yo damn mind.” As an example, some women will get a new haircut when a relationship ends. But there’s a difference in getting a cute bob, and going all Britney Spears with a razor. Or, to push another stereotype, think of guys having … More Eggplant Curry

Grilled Squash Salad

“Try a Little Tenderness” is–by-far–Otis Redding’s best song. For those complete nubes who have never heard of the song and/or the artist, or for those who want a 1980s throwback, I present to you the classic clip of Jon Cryer from Pretty in Pink: Few would characterize Cryer’s reaction (or even Cryer’s character’s reaction) as…well…”tender”. However, … More Grilled Squash Salad